Ahh...a discussion about my favorite thing...the male penis! lol Women, throughout time have always felt the sting of society's "what they should be". But have you ever stopped to think of just what men must face? If you are like me then your inbox is bombarded with ways to increase your penil size or stamina. Why do we get these emails? Because this is the one sure fired weakness that all men share...are they really big enough?
Let's start with a few facts about the male penis. The British Journal of Urology (BJU) International, finds that the average erect penis is about 5.5 to 6.2 inches long and about 4.7 to 5.1 inches in circumference. Hmmm...think about that for a minute. Most studies also show that the average vaginal depth is 5 to 7 inches for women. So nature knew what it was doing on this one, ensuring that tab "A" fit comfortably into slot "B". So, medically speaking, longer isn't always better since a woman cannot always easily take the entire length inside her. So, size does matter...just not in the way that most men and women are led to believe.
Plus the vagina is not an open tube waiting to be filled. The walls are close togther, often touching, until something is inserted, thus seperating them. And most women, according to research, prefer a thicker penis to a longer one. And since a woman's main source of sexual pleasure is her clitoris, which is on the outside of her vagina... Well, let's just say that there is a lot to be said for a man's touch.
But what has society pushed men into trying? More than you probably realize. Of course you know about the pills for erectile dysfunction and the creams and tubes and so forth that are said to increase size. But are you aware of just how far some men will go to feel adequate? Do you know that there is actually a penis enlargement surgery? Can you imagine the point a man must reach to let that part go under the knife? This surgery can be anywhere from partially separating ligaments in the penis so it hangs further from the body to injecting fat into the penis to increase its girth. One of the most extreme procedures involves completely splaying the penis and inserting a piece of cartilage into it before suturing it up again. Can you say ouch?
I've always tried to display women a certain way in my books. Perhaps because I am more sensitive to a woman's feelings of insecurity when it comes to her weight or breast size. But I never once thought about what I might be helping to perpetuate when it came to my heroes. I must admit that all of them are "long and thick".
How will this knowledge affect my writing? I'm not really sure. The genre that I write pulls certain thoughts and myths from me. And the most important one is that of the well endowed male. But my eyes are open now, so we'll see.
I wanted to share a few little things with you, just some facts that might catch you by surprise. And a word of advice...the next time you are with your man, be sure to tell him just how much he does please you. He needs validation as well.
Indian Sadhus men use weights to increase their penis length.
The Topamina of Brazil encourage poisonous snakes to bite their penises to get a size boost that lasts six months.
The longest Human Penis ever documented 14".
Current Longest Penis is ---- 13".
The shortest penis is ----- 5/8".
Iguanas have two Penises.
There has been 80 documented cases of men with two Penises.
Men of the Walibri tribe of central Australia greet each other by shaking penises instead of hands.
Finally, just remember that when it comes to physical pleasure, your skin is your largest sex organ and your mind is the most powerful one!
(Facts and statistics were gathered from several places: Live Science, Men's Health, Good Stuff, and Associated Content.)